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Career and growth

Stakeholder Engagement – My Takeaways

As we grow in our careers, stakeholder engagement becomes one of the important factors that shape our growth. In today’s global workforce, stakeholders come in many forms – internal and external, direct and indirect, local and global – each with different stakes in a project. Engaging with each of them needs a nuanced approach, especially when you are the key driver. Early in my leadership career, I thought stakeholder management (SM) and stakeholder engagement (SE) meant the same thing. With experience, I learnt to see the difference between the two. To me, SM is largely about one-way communication, such as sharing regular status updates and communications. For example, during a production incident, sharing regular status updates with internal and external stakeholders, or sharing the minutes of key decisions with everyone involved. But SE is more of a two-way dialogue that needs investment, relationship building and a collaborative approach. For instance, working with Product Management to shape the roadmap, or conducting collaborative workshops for a larger project involving Product, Design and Program Management. I learnt some lessons the hard way and, at times, by watching leaders in action – the way they approached situations, handled conflicts and influenced decisions. My biggest takeaway from these experiences is that EQ plays a critical role in stakeholder engagement. Self-awareness and situational understanding coupled with a balanced approach can make engagement smoother and more collaborative. If I had to distil my own learnings, I’d put them down to three principles 1. Organisational interests first I learnt a fundamental principle from my leader, Ashwin Srinivasan , during my time in Marketplace: the organisation’s interests first, followed by those of your BU, then your product, and finally your own team. 2. Never make it us vs. them Ego or tunnel vision can damage relationships and get in the way of progress. Self-awareness and an understanding of the situation can help when disagreements get difficult. 3. Be flexible I’ve seen situations flare up simply because people didn’t have the full context. Instead of holding a fixed position, flexibility may help diffuse the situation. For example, explaining our challenges or constraints to stakeholders could yield better results than expecting them to know our circumstances. Engineering constraints versus Product demands is a classic example of this. I don’t think stakeholder engagement is something we figure out once and for all. It’s something we continue to learn through the people we work with and the situations we encounter. These are a few things that have stayed with me over the years. Share On : Facebook Instagram Youtube Twitter

Self-awareness and coaching

What Does a Coach Actually Do? Understanding Professional Coaching

The word “coach” gets used a lot.Some people think of a therapist. Some think of a mentor. Some imagine a consultant who givesexpert advice.Coaching is none of those — and also not entirely separate from them.So what does a coach actually do A coach helps you think — not tells you what to do This is the biggest distinction. A coach does not arrive with a ready-made solution for your life or work. Instead, they create space for you to think clearly and deliberately about your own situation.Through conversation, they help you:• Notice patterns• Clarify what truly matters• Identify assumptions• Recognize what may be holding you backThe goal is not to insert the coach’s answers into your decisions. The goal is to help you access your own. A coach listens at a deeper level Most conversations move quickly. People listen to respond.Coaching is different.A trained coach listens not just to your words, but to tone, energy, hesitation, and repetition. They pay attention to what stands out — and sometimes, what’s missing.They may reflect something back to you. They may ask you to slow down. They may invite you to look again at a statement you moved past quickly.This quality of listening is rare. And when experienced, it often feels both simple and powerful. A coach asks thoughtful, intentional questions Many of us are surrounded by advice. Very few of us are regularly asked meaningful questions. Coaching conversations often include questions like:• What’s really going on here?• What do you want — not what’s expected of you?• What assumption are you operating from?• What would change if you trusted yourself more?These are not dramatic questions. They are clarifying ones. And clarity can shift direction. A coach supports accountability Insight is valuable. Action creates movement. At the end of a session, you may choose a step you want to take. A coach will check in on that — not to evaluate you, but to understand your learning.If something didn’t move forward, the conversation becomes:• What got in the way?• What did you notice?• What needs to shift?Accountability in coaching is collaborative, not corrective. A coach works from the belief that you are capable ICF-aligned coaching is grounded in a simple but powerful belief: You are resourceful and capable.A coach does not treat you as broken or in need of fixing. They partner with you as someone who already has strengths, experience, and insight — even if they feel unclear at the moment. The work is about uncovering, not installing. What a coach does not do Clarity also comes from knowing the boundaries.A coach does not:• Diagnose mental health conditions (that is the role of a therapist)• Provide subject-matter expertise (that is the role of a consultant or mentor)• Make decisions for youIf specialized advice or therapeutic support is needed, a coach may help you identify that. But coaching itself remains distinct. These boundaries are intentional. They protect the integrity of the process. So who is coaching for? Coaching is not only for people in crisis. In fact, many people who work with a coach are already performing well. They simply want to grow further, lead more intentionally, or navigate change with clarity.Coaching is for:• People who feel stuck• People facing a decision• Leaders wanting to think more strategically• Individuals seeking alignment between values and actionIt’s for anyone willing to pause and reflect — and then move forward with intention. A final thought In fast-moving environments, we are often rewarded for quick answers and even expect the same for our own questions. Coaching offers something different: space to think well before acting. It’s not about motivation or dramatic breakthroughs. It’s about awareness, choice, and responsibility. And over time, these quiet shifts tend to compound – often leading to clarity. Share On : Facebook Instagram Youtube Twitter

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